Dating Tips for the un-hipster
If a man really enjoyed your company he'll insist on paying, though honestly even if he didn't it is rude of him to suggest letting you pay. Sound like a familiar concept? Both genders are taught pretty early on the simple rules of dating but the message so often gets lost in translation.
The easy, and perhaps unfair, reality is if a girl is interested she won't be genuinely offering to pay for her coffee. So why lie, why offer something you don't want to? When a man is happy to provide dinner it shows, even in that deeply subconscious way, that he can provide mammoth (tasty) meat when needed. So much of our connections with future mates are based around non conscious needs and desires, and one of the top desires for women is to be protected and provided for in varying ways. Really, splitting the check is not about money but about care and the ability to take care of another person. If dating is one thing it is illogical in so many ways. Yet, by embracing how we date, how we really view potential mates and how we feel, people can have a better grasp on dating the way they want.
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